With multiple heart breaks quite a few human beings have dropped out of the dating cycle, wishing that out of nowhere, a person would land in front of them and begin a relationship that they have always dreamt of but never had a chance to live.
You would rarely come across a person in life who can start about his/her love story with the terms "not long ago", and for this reason a high percentage of people now resort to taking such matters into one's own hands. And it is the Internet that has come to their aid and given such aspirants a new lease of life.
Online dating websites are aplenty and for people on the look for such websites there are many options. Online dating is a fun thing to do and in case you set some pre-conditions for the person you would like to meet then the process can be rewarding.
But you should be mindful of the fact that such sites are not conducive for hopeless romantic people, the faint-hearted & highly sensitive. Those who are prepared to take a chance and be bold will enjoy online dating.
A part of online dating is that people hide their true identities in most cases. In such cases either the not disclosing the gender, marital status, the true and etc.
And that makes you wonder if the person you are dating online is really what they are claiming to be, is that person being true to you? If you want that person to be telling you the truth then you have to be true first.
Now lets see what can be done to make out if the person is honest or not.
Listen to that person clearly, not you might say 'listen' how can that happen when that person is on the internet. Well that's the art 'listen' to the words that are being said 'typed' by the opposite person on the monitor of your PC.
Attempt to 'listen' to the text you are reading and then ask a few details of those responses that you feel are doubtful. Incase there happens to be a fluent and prompt answer then that person is being true but if there is hesitation or refusal then it could be that the person is lying. Considering both responses you should take a decision.
But if you happen to want to ask many ridiculous questions and then to the opposite person have instant replies that could amaze then think 2 times before going any further with the relation. First see if the answers are believable?
Online dating is also home to many married people. Such people are there just for fun, they shall not commit anything substantial to you and if you pursue them you can be tagged as a home wrecker.
Incase you have the phone number of the person you are dating online then do make surprise calls at times. If she/he has any negative reactions, for example that person tells you 'you called up without prior notice, I had something to take care of' then that's a clear indication of taking one step back. Continue making similar surprise calls for a few days preceding the first call. And if the response is similar then it clear indication that you should back out of the relation immediately.
Online scammers are the ones that you should watch out for. Now how to identity one? Such people at 1st attempt try to make you feel comfortable and shall agree with whatever you have discussed with them, and say positive things about you almost instantly and then in about a 7 - 10 days time tell you that she/he loves you more than anyone before. Now come on, that's completely vague who can you be in love with someone you haven't seen or share moments with.
Incase there is a strong mutual feeling for one another then fixing for a one on one meeting shouldn't be a problem. Further there shouldn't be a hitch is discussing a few matter up front.
Online dating is an option that can lead you to finding the match that you have been looking for. But love takes time to happen and blossom into a flower.
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